1. They do too much on their own.
The INTP is an introvert who values autonomy and independence. ESFJs prefer working in groups, but INTPs prefer to be independent. INTPs may find it difficult to ask for help, even if it is in their best interest. Asking for help can be a challenge to their self-confidence and a sign that they are not capable. Many INTPs need to accept that they can seek help, and not feel guilty.
2. Do not underestimate others.
INTPs value intelligence and tend to prefer IQ tests, SATs, and other academic tests for intellectual validation. Although intelligence can come in many forms, INTPs may be more inclined to the abstract, ontological, or creative. They may underestimate, undervalue, and overlook the concrete tactile intelligence of a grease-stained mechanic or the emotional intelligence of a great customer service agent. These skills may not be their cup, but INTPs will be remiss to ignore their importance and the ability to perform them.
3. You must not withhold affection and warmth.
INTPs are a type that can control their emotions so well that people often wonder if they even have them. They could do well at poker. INTPs have emotions just like everyone else. However, they don't see the point in showing them. It is partly because they believe it makes things more complicated and messy than they should be. This view is not shared by many people. As a result, INTP's inability to express emotions may be interpreted as uncaring and callousness.
4. They are not allowed to suppress their emotions.
However, INTPs can be hampered by their emotional suppression. Keeping their negative emotions hidden for too long can lead to a decline in their mental health, and eventually anger. INTPs aren't good at reacting emotionally to situations without being able to think through the situation rationally. INTPs need to be able to listen to their feelings and express them when necessary. They can let their anxiety and discomfort get in the way of their goals, which allows more powerful personalities to push them aside and subvert their principles.
5. Social Distancing.
INTPs are shy and reserved around people they don't know. They tend to keep people apart until they have enough information about them to decide on whether or not they want to get closer. The INTP's social barrier keeps manipulators and snakes out of their lives. Their reluctance or inability to be socially bolder can lead to them missing out on great opportunities to meet people.
6. Ostracization.
There can be a huge difference in how INTPs behave around people within their circle and those outside of it. INTPs are often gregarious around their friends but can become irritable if they meet someone new. This can make people feel isolated and out of control. This is one-way INTPs can unintentionally offend people who don’t get their social awkwardness.
7. Being a "Right Fighter"
INTPs are independent thinkers and can be resistant to others telling them what they should believe or think. This makes it easy for INTPs to become hostile to ideas or perspectives that are different from their own. INTPs are usually open to having their logic and reasoning challenged by others. When they are wrong, they are happy to admit it and make corrections. INTPs can sometimes be so certain of themselves that they refuse to even consider the possibility that they might be wrong. Sometimes, INTPs can become too zealous and arrogant in their pursuit of perfection.